My 7-Year-Old Came Home From Her First Sleepover Crying and Holding Her Stomach—At the ER, the Doctor Looked at Her Test Results and Asked Me Six Words: “Who Gave Her This, and When?”

“Daddy, was I bad for going to Owen’s house?”

It nearly broke me. I kissed her forehead. “No, sweetheart. You didn’t do anything wrong. Not one thing.”

She thought for a moment. “Is Owen bad too?”

I was careful with my answer. “Owen is a little boy, just like you’re a little girl. His dad made some very wrong choices. That doesn’t make Owen the same as his dad.”

She was quiet for a long time. Then she said, “Then I don’t want to hate him.”

I sat on the edge of her bed long after she fell asleep. I was so angry at Gregory Hale I could barely think straight. And my seven-year-old, who still woke up crying from nightmares, had just decided not to carry that anger at all.

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